FREE Guide

What’s So
Great About
Butt Stuff

Unfortunately, anal play is still pretty taboo these days. So it’s totally understandable if you’re curious, but still too nervous to actually give it a shot. In this guide, we’ll give you all the answers to all the questions you’re too afraid to Google!

hey there!

Vanessa’s a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander’s a regular dude who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade. (Which makes him very popular at parties!)

Our mission is to take the intimidation out of getting intimate.

We’re here to make you laugh and give you the courage to talk openly about intimacy, so you can have more fun in and out of the bedroom.

We're vanessa + xander marin!