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The Secret Touch
Blueprint

The super simple exercise will help you figure out your favorite ways to be touched and give you an easy way to share them with your partner. Think of it as your unique blueprint for how you love to be touched! And the best part? Even couples who've been together forever are often surprised by each other's answers. You might discover your partner loves something you never thought to try!

hey there!

Vanessa’s a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander’s a regular dude who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade. (Which makes him very popular at parties!)

Our mission is to take the intimidation out of getting intimate.

We’re here to make you laugh and give you the courage to talk openly about intimacy, so you can have more fun in and out of the bedroom.

We're vanessa + xander marin!