A Survivor's Guide To Reclaiming Your Sex Life After Abuse

This is a free course Vanessa created to help female survivors of sexual abuse and trauma reclaim their sex lives. We believe you deserve to reconnect with this part of your being and we are honored to be a part of your journey.

hey there!

Vanessa’s a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander’s a regular dude who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade. (Which makes him very popular at parties!)

Our mission is to take the intimidation out of getting intimate.

We’re here to make you laugh and give you the courage to talk openly about intimacy, so you can have more fun in and out of the bedroom.

We're vanessa + xander marin!