FREE Guide

The 4 Desire Types:
Which One Are You?

When it comes to desire, there's more to the story than just feeling "in the mood" or not. Desire isn't one-size-fits-all; it's way more nuanced than that. Your Desire Type depends on two key dynamics: HOW you want it and WHEN you want it. Find out what type you are!

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Vanessa’s a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander’s a regular dude who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade. (Which makes him very popular at parties!)

Our mission is to take the intimidation out of getting intimate.

We’re here to make you laugh and give you the courage to talk openly about intimacy, so you can have more fun in and out of the bedroom.

We're vanessa + xander marin!