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The No-Shame
Sex Talk Guide

If you’re like most parents, you dread the thought.  There are just so many unknowns.  But here’s the truth: the conversations you have with your kid about sex — how you talk about it, when you talk about it, if you talk about it — are profoundly important. These conversations shape how they understand their bodies, their boundaries, their relationships, and their sense of self-worth. 

So... how do you actually start having these delicate conversations? Let’s show you how.

hey there!

Vanessa’s a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander’s a regular dude who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade. (Which makes him very popular at parties!)

Our mission is to take the intimidation out of getting intimate.

We’re here to make you laugh and give you the courage to talk openly about intimacy, so you can have more fun in and out of the bedroom.

We're vanessa + xander marin!