FREE Guide

Turn Me On:
Your Initiation Style Guide

Based on our work with thousands of people, we’ve identified six unique Initiation Styles. Your style is your preferred initiation technique. Read through the Initiation Styles together and try to identify your top one or two types. Then, share with each other!

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Vanessa’s a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander’s a regular dude who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade. (Which makes him very popular at parties!)

Our mission is to take the intimidation out of getting intimate.

We’re here to make you laugh and give you the courage to talk openly about intimacy, so you can have more fun in and out of the bedroom.

We're vanessa + xander marin!