FREE Guide

Best Way to Have Your First Orgasm

You’ve tried relaxing. You’ve tried not thinking about it. You’ve tried to just let it happen. But that has never, ever worked! In this guide, I'll eliminate all the bad advice and deliver you clear, step-by-step instructions to have your very first wildly pleasurable orgasm.

hey there!

Vanessa’s a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander’s a regular dude who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade. (Which makes him very popular at parties!)

Our mission is to take the intimidation out of getting intimate.

We’re here to make you laugh and give you the courage to talk openly about intimacy, so you can have more fun in and out of the bedroom.

We're vanessa + xander marin!